Be Happy and Kind

   

Most of the people are unhappy with their life. Some of them are unhappy with their job life, some of them are unhappy their partner, friend and society, and some of them are with their selves. They usually think problems in their life come from others activity and blame for others.

People usually postpone time to be happy. Some I’ll be happy when I graduate, when I get a job/start a business, and some thinks when I’ll be success. But in most of the case they wouldn’t be happy even after achieving their got to be happy because when get their goal they set another goal to fulfill or they can’t reach there.

If we look at the view of the successful people they say that “Happiness is not the goal of the person, it is the feeling of satisfaction of their work and self-esteem. It never found is success it always in the way to get success.’’

Here some Tricks on How to Be Happy/Calm In Every Situation:-

 1.   Be Optimistic

Everyone have to face challenges in their life. If you look at the positive side of that problem you’ll get a chance to learn and improve yourself. But if you look at negative side you’ll see more problem and struggle. You must have a habit to be optimistic in every situation of your life. That will allow you to be more positive and see hope. While you are being positive it will help to connect with people, family, and friends and they can get out of the situation. Develop a habit to look half full glass instead of half empty. Being optimistic give you motivation to see hope on challenges and opportunity to grow.

2. Focus On What You Can Control

People mostly think about what they can’t control. They think about uncontrolled things like their illness, heavy rain/storm/sunlight, uncertain job market, memory of the past, and many more. These kinds of thinking drain their energy and make them sad and week. You have to focus what you can do/control and how you improve yourself and be calm instead of these types of things that you can’t control.

3.  Practice Accepting Yourself

Accepting yourself means to be comfortable in who you are. You don’t have to compare yourself with others make you unhappy and decrease your self-esteem because when you compare yourself with others you’ll find out your flaws.  Remember that no one in this world have same intelligent, knowledge, passion and skill before you compare yourself with others and we all have flaws. Comparing with others increases negativity on your mind.

4.   Be Kind To Others

Being kind to others will help you to be positive and happy. That’s why most of the success people help others by donating their knowledge, skill, experience, wealth, and time too. You also have an attitude to help others. That will help you to improve your social reputation, positivity on your mind and even you body. Always be ready to help others kindly without expecting anything in return from them.

Recommended Book:- The Subtle Art OF Not Giving A F*ck

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Inspirational Quotes That Can Change Your MindSet

   Quotes can make you focus, motivated, and inspire from the achievers what you want to achieve in your life. Quotes can change your life that's why you have to read, memorize and share these quotes to your family, friends and other who need inspiration and motivation.


       Inspirational Quotes That Can Change Your Mindset

1. Accept responsibility for your life. Know that it is you who will get you where you want to go, no one else.
                                                                     - Les Brown

2. Failure is the condiment that gives success its flavor.
                                                                    - Truman Capote

3. Great minds discuss ideas; average minds discuss events; small minds discuss people.
                                                                    - Eleanor Roosevelt

4. If you are going through hell keep going. 
                                                                    - Winston Churchill

5. If you can change your mind, you can change your life.
                                                                    - William James

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