Saturday, November 03, 2018

Be Friendly and Influence People

Every people want to be friendly in their life. But not everyone of being like the same.
Being friendly and influencing people depends on your attitude(way of thinking), how we treat to other people.
Some people believes that being friendly is the trick or some kind of power which they have learned in childhood. In real life this is a trick or habit that make them friendly but not a superpower and you don't have to learn this tricks in childhood. You are reading this post, that means you didn't these tricks and ideas in your childhood.
Don't worry friends I'm here to tell you the secret of people use in their daily life.

Following are few techniques you can use in your daily life to be friendly and influence people:-

1. Do not criticize others
          If you want to likable and wanna make friends you have to stop criticize other. People usually don’t like criticism even they do the same. 

2. Accept your mistakes 
          Like-able and friendly people always accept their mistakes. That helps to maintain relationships and make more trustful. If you also start to accept your mistakes without any argument, you’ll feel more positive, likable and attractive to your friends.

3.Appreciate other genuinely
         The main problem in friendship or relationship is no one appreciate other for their good nature or work. They just argue and tease them in their mistakes. Appreciate genuinely makes other more confident, active and makes the relationship better. Appreciate genuinely in their profession make your self also positive and attractive. If you appreciate other as a tease this can break your relation.

4. Be genuinely interested in others
          If you want to make others interested in you. First, you have show you are interested in them. You have to be a good listener. It doesn’t mean you have to be silent in front them, you have to ask open questions using how, why, where etc.

5.Smile
         The smile is the best way to make anyone friend and influence people. The smile shows that they are interested in you. Genuine smile also best for your health. If you smile to somebody they feel secure and friendly towards you. You can smile after in 20/30 sec of your eye contact.

6.Remember names
        Our name is the best thing in our life. We love so much our name, so remembering name  is best for making friends. Taking names in conversation make them likely and friendly.


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